Sunday, November 1, 2009
Reason to Bother
There's a kid- everyone knows him - who's always complaining. The weather never strikes his fancy or his English teacher's grading scale is just too much for him to handle. This guy always wakes up on the wrong side of the bed. He's the righteous dude sauntering up to your desk, marked-up paper in hand, asking loud enough for everyone else to hear why the class deserves so much red pen in such a short time span. Can't this guy give it a rest?
You wonder (aloud, if you're the especially expressive type) why a kid like this never tries to fix the problem. His pieces bump along slowly at "C" level, yet he never takes any of your advice on how to improve his writing. You think that if he just took the time to tweak a few sentences here and there, his work would improve significantly. He would be a contributing member of society if he only gave all that he could on his English essays. This kid's biggest weapon is his apathy; his decision to render all the power he holds for good useless. Instead, he moans about the trials and tribulations life has in store for him. So many people choose to spend their time complaining instead of taking the matter into their own hands and improving the world as they see it. All it takes is a little effort from you and me and a great change can be made.
Mahatma Gandhi said, "You must be the change you wish to see in the world", and I try my best to live by those words every day of my life. There is no doubt in my mind that I think about this powerful quote every single day: any morning- bright, dismal, or downright dreary- is met by my conscious entrance into the world. I take a breath and think about what I have to look forward to during the day. If nothing that makes me smile pops into my mind, I look to the week, or even the month ahead. I consider both the planned and the unpredictable. When that doesn't work, I reflect on what I have to be thankful for. This sets my mind up to be the best version of myself that I can be: a charitable, personable, and contributing human being.
I hold doors open for others, volunteer for Key Club, give people all of my attention when they talk and let my spirit shine through in all that I do. I try my best to give everyone an equal opportunity instead of letting prejudices cloud my judgment. I exhibit benevolence because it is what I wish others will do for me and for the beautiful world that we have the honor of living in. I know that I am doing all that I can with what I have and I hope that others will follow suit. I fully comprehend that there is hardly anything other than ourselves within our control in this life, which is reason enough to be who you want to be.
The time has come to rise to the occasion, seize the day, "carpe diem." "You must be the change you wish to see in the world": if not to change the world, then only to live at peace with ourselves.
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Soul Mates, Destiny - the "Real Connection"
While trying to sleep last night I turned over the concept of DESTINY in my brain while simultaneously trying to decide if it was too late to ask others what they thought on the subject. The morning after, and I'm too lazy to grab my phone but still thinking about destiny.
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Sex and the Short Haircut.
After reading a thought-provoking article on the power of a short haircut on sexual attraction, I started to ponder the issue myself. I learned that most men find a closer cut less attractive. But why? A shorter haircut showcases the wearers features and makes the eyes appear larger. Bobs and the like are associated with a fearless attitude and an overall air of chicness. I started thinking about famous women who have sported cropped ‘dos.
Marilyn Monroe, arguably the greatest sex symbol of all time, wore her short blonde curls and still had men pining after her. And who can forget Audrey Hepburn’s magical and nearly identical transformations in both Roman Holiday and Sabrina? In both films, she gains an adorable cropped cut along with an attitude adjustment and a handful of male admirers. Her affairs with multiple men only seems to turn my thesis on its head. Twiggy started a revolution. Miranda Hobbes, of Sex and the City, never takes her hair beyond chin level yet manages to keep up with her girlfriends in the bedhopping department. But does this non-relationship between hair length and sexual attraction only exist in Hollywood? I, personally, know of no men who find a woman with short hair attractive. Yet these short-haired women still live among us, finding boyfriends and receiving compliments.
Which brings me to Sex and the Short Cut, part deux. I now bring you to the dark side of short haircuts, those sported by soccer moms and middle-aged women alike. I see these women wearing sandals designed solely for comfort, browsing the sale racks at Target. They sport short cuts because they lack the time necessary to maintain a fuller mane. But what does this insinuate? Once you’re married and hit 40- sorry folks, thats it?
Will we be so conditioned to our stable suburban marriages that we stop trying and take a shorter, more unfortunate crop as part of the package? Lets hope not, because everyone knows that the second you let go of maintaining appearances and a crack forms in the cement of your marriage, a desperate twenty-something squeezes in.
In closing, I present you with no answers. Spending an hour of my allotted “exercise time” to dissect the connection between short hair and sexual attraction has left me with the same question as when I started- to chop or not to chop?